Why do I feel sick every time I go out to eat with my gf? ( kbin.earth )

ikidd , 7 months ago

Maybe she's poisoning you to get even for not asking her out earlier.

strawberry OP , 7 months ago

haha maybe

intensely_human , 7 months ago

Maybe you’re spending money you shouldn’t. Also, maybe youre spending your heart when you shouldn’t.

My first thought is that there’s something about those first couple of bites that triggers the anxiety. Could be subconscious (well, it is subconscious currently if you’re unaware of a cause).

Are there any particular thoughts that occur when the meal arrives? Even thoughts that occur only briefly to be replaced by others?

strawberry OP , 7 months ago

I'll have to pay more attention to that I suppose

sin_free_for_00_days , 7 months ago

This was my first thought. Being pretty poor most of my life, I've had that "oh-shit" gut-punch when going out to eat a lot of times. Money problems suck.

abbadon420 , 7 months ago

Is this one of those "red flags" people keep talking about?

FaceDeer , 7 months ago

Did you sign up for any life insurance policies with her recently? Add her to your will? Is she currently borrowing something and has mentioned "jokingly" about how she'd really like to keep it?

Not a high probability, mind you, but since the subject was raised...

strawberry OP , 7 months ago

she does have my hoodie right now.....

nomous , 7 months ago

She really likes her new hoodie.