Public schools in the 70's forced me to be a righty! Teacher even said something stupid like it's evil. Made me put my crayons in the right hand. Is my hand wrighting ledgable... Nope! Never has been.
I'm a lefty but my teachers never knew how to handle a lefty so my handwriting is also illegible. I had to go do handwriting basics ("colour in the enclosed area of the A shape") in high school.
So mileage may vary even if leftyism is tolerated. But look at me now teachers! I type obscure commands all day and get a sore hand when I pick up a pen! Checkmate!
This didn't stop in the middle ages. My mother, born 1945 in Chicago, was left handed but wrote (and did a few other things like use scissors) right handed because they forced kids to do so then. I suspect some places still do. They didn't even have some tools for lefties. Why do you think the did that thing in The Simpsons.
My mother told me of being beaten by the teacher because she was left handed. It took several years but they finally made her right handed she was born in 1931
My father is a leftie and as a young child I found it cool that he could do stuff with left hand while I was only able to use my right.
That inspired me to learn how to use both arms and that really has been a blessing - being ambidexterous is awesome. It was especially great when I finally learned to stick weld with my left hand. So many impossible corners are just corners now.
To my knowing there's round 5% of people that are totally left handed or totally right handed. Every one else, please learn to use your non dominant hand.
At some point there will be people here who have never heard of reddit, a fresh, innocent, generation. They will not have heard of reddit, but still know when the narwhal doth bacon.
I broke my right shoulder some years ago (I'm right-handed) and for about a year I had to switch to playing disc golf lefty. Initially I was terrible but eventually I got the point where I could shoot around par left handed. Now my shoulder is healed but it's useful to be able to pull out a lefty shot once in a while.
The real challenge was driving my stick shift without using my right arm.
I kind of hate the whole “born this way” argument. It’s saying that if we could scientifically prove you are sucking cock without having the cock-sucking gene/allele then we are justified in sending you to a forced reeducation camp.
'Born this way' doesn't mean there is a simple diagnosis, or that a clinical diagnosis is always possible due to the complexity of biological lifeforms.
'Born this way' is used to refute arguments that everything is learned when it is clear that some people are not the same as the majority of the population, and to remind people that is perfectly fine.
I mean, I feel it’s kinda useless too, it keeps encouraging their “don’t mess with nature” mindset.
In the present, you like men? Go with men. I don’t care if you were “born like that” or not. What matters is you gotta live the way you want to live now (as long as it’s not actively hurting other people ofc).
Even if everything was actually learned it doesn’t mean it’s anyone else’s business what do you want to do with your life.
The thing is that the 'cock sucking' criterium you use is a bit beside the point.
One can suck a cock without being gay, in fact most cock sucking occurs in heterosexual context.
Then there's the cock sucking by people who don't identity as gay, or sometimes even staunchly advocate against gay identity.
And then there's the cock sucking as a transactional or functional. Some people don't love those who sport cocks, but still suck them to gain money or affection or children. Or just because it's the norm and they don't want to be considered weird (you'd be surprised how big this group is).
The better qualification would be whom you love. And that shouldn't be so complicated. Some people live dogs, but I don't, that's ok with me as long as they don't force me to pet or be licked by their dog.
