youronlyone ,
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Why is it that in and , when a woman cannot reach something, the guy would reach it for her from her back.

If it was me, I would hold her at her waist and lift her up. I think that's sweeter and more charming. And if you feel like going a mile, turn her and sat her on the table, and tease her with pecks.

If we're in the kitchen when that scenario happens, because she wants to cook food, then I'll tell her to just sit there and watch me cook instead; and while cooking, I will steal kisses on her cheeks, but no lips.

The taste of the food doesn't matter; nor the food itself (could be instant ramen/ramyeon/noodle). If I failed, we'll surely have laughter, and she can tease me back. If the food's good, it's a plus.

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Lucy ,
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@youronlyone 2reasons. 1: by lifting her you take away her autonomy, people don't tend to like that and 2: by reaching from behind you can make the tension between them palpable, often it is for the first time they are so close. Oh and 3rd: he is taller and unfortunately we have to feed that thrope so that guys, short kings , will forever be insecure.

youronlyone OP ,
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@Lucy But is not reaching it yourself the one that takes away her autonomy, and insulting her height?

As compared to lifting her up, she still did it herself as if she took a chair to stand on; or the guy crouch and she stppeed on his back.

Lucy ,
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@youronlyone I get your drift but it's mainly to introduce the near contact between to people and hands on is way to direct 😉 like in the movie ghost, where he leads her hands with the clay. It is seen as romantic and he is so near without it being to direct. Same with tennis player and teacher, the often use it there too.

youronlyone OP ,
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@Lucy Yeah, lol, the tennis scenes. Though for me I see it as taking advantage of woman. Hehe. But I understand what you mean.

vaseline ,
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@youronlyone @drama @kdrama @kdrama @tv @tv
Isn't this trope normally shown when the leads have not progressed to that intimate yet?

youronlyone OP ,
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@vaseline Yep, they're getting closer. Feeling each other out but not ready to admit it.

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