the cishet guy's biggest fear is being gay. so much so that they invent complicated mental gymnastics as to why finding this fem twink hot is In Fact, Not Gay At All Dude Bro I Promise Listen To Me
one of the stupidest arguments i have heard in this regard was that they would feel attracted to anything feminine so therefore wanting to have sex with a feminine guy isn't gay because his body is feminine and i haven't heard a more dehumanizing and cringe take than this. imagine reducing someone's gender identity to their body parts
@mynameistillian I can cite examples of this exact fucking position dating back some 3,000 years, and while it's historically interesting when ancient cultures do it, modern meatheads need to knock the whole inversion thing the fuck off.
(I mean, I'll call myself an invert sometimes, but I get to label me.)
@HauntedOwlbear@mynameistillian This is part of why I'm somewhat prone to rolling my eyes when the first thing queer people do when debating phobes is "oh but those ancient and indigenous and medieval cultures had accepted homosexuality!"
Most of them accepted specifically what we would call femboy bottoms. They did not accept masculine gays in most cases. Or female homosexuality.
The correct response is "I don't give a fuck if it's unnatural, we have free will and can go against our nature".