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superball

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Spirit of forest and shore, living in a woodland tent, taking you on adventures

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scalzi , to Random stuff
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Sugar has given you THE SECRET SIGN. You know what to do now.

superball ,
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@scalzi
OMG I have waited all my life for this moment.

amy , to Random stuff
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Just learned about an alternative to protonmail called @Tutanota.

Have you heard of it? Do you use it? Boost for visibility. Extra weight given to client votes šŸ˜

ā€‹:boost_requested:ā€‹

superball ,
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@amy

I wanted to try it, but something about the onboarding didnā€™t work with my setup. When I tried to get help, I never got a reply. Iā€™m happy with Proton.

@Tutanota

GTMLosAngeles , to neurodiversity group
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@autistic.me@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistic
@neurodiversity

Explore.
Embrace.
Experience.
Evolve.

Those four words describe my neurofabulous path. Aside from the pleasant alliteration, there is joy for me in understanding how these stages work. I have the same stages for sexuality, gender, political philosophy, plurality and more, but this post is for Celebration Week.

Explore - so much research, so much to unlearn, so many family secrets to unearth, so many memories to unpick. Online quizzes and brave conversations. Introspection. Thereā€™s no rushing thus - it begins when I am ready for it to begin and it takes however long it takes (usually longer than Iā€™d like).

Embrace - this is me. I am autistic. My mind spins out of synch with itself and with my body and with other minds and bodies. This can feel bad or good, can create problems and solve problems. I have far less control over this than I have wanted to admit. I hate it and I love it. And I embrace being autistic.

Experience - I want to freeze everything in place. I have found and accepted my same same routines and same same clothes and same same foods and same same people. I can finally let go of shame and just feel safe. I want nothing to change ever. I can finally be me.

Evolve - something changes. As much as I regulate the world and myself, nature persists. The only constant is change. What I was so relieved to realize worked is not working as much anymore. I have discovered that I am and can be more than I thought and less than I have required. I can be new. And maybe even ā€¦ Explore.

Comments welcome.

superball ,
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@pathfinder @GTMLosAngeles @autistic.me@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistic @neurodiversity
You all inspire me, too. I donā€™t think Iā€™m autistic: some common traits donā€™t fit, and a couple of questionnaires came out ā€œclose, but not quite.ā€ I do engage in comforting nervous habits, like nibbling on the insides of my cheeks or rocking and rocking in a rocking chair. Itā€™s reassuring to think: This is basically stimming, which is fine. If I avoid eye contact or miss social cues: Well, this is just one way of being. ā¤ļø

HauntedOwlbear , to Random stuff
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was going to play more Resident Evil 1 on Steam Deck but

Close up of a single soft tabby paw on the Deck.

superball ,
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@HauntedOwlbear you totally did

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  • superball ,
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    @malwaretech
    I get why people are saying B, but things like this can get nasty. If you escalate, so might he. Iā€™d go with A or maybe go after him with a lawyerā€”or, if you have a chance at a civil conversation with him, maybe find out what bigger struggles he might have going on under the surface, for which stealing your work seemed a quick fix. Maybe his business is doing badly and heā€™s stressed out and on edge, worried about making ends meet. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

    jerry , to Random stuff
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    That was a long day. Have a good night everyone.

    superball ,
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    @jerry
    Get some good rest.

    davidbisset , to Random stuff
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    Why I šŸ§” the :

    Merriam-Webster's 404 Page

    https://www.merriam-webster.com/notfound

    superball ,
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    @davidbisset @tchambers

    I like this one from Kagi, too:

    retrohistories , to Random stuff
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    For no real reason, thinking about how Dropbox used to be one of the first and most essential things I installed on a new machine, but I haven't used it in years.

    Just took a look at their landing page and itā€™s now some confusing as hell cacophony of pictures and text expressing no clear value or function. Scroll down three screens and you find the single occurrence of the word 'syncā€™... didnā€™t that used to be the whole point?

    superball ,
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    @retrohistories
    Plus theyā€™ve so very helpfully integrated AI! /s

    There are some things I have to use Dropbox for, but I instantly delete documentsā€”both send them to the trash and perma-delete the forever filesā€”after I complete any transfer.

    superball , to Random stuff
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    I came across my first obviously AI article yesterday. A cat brought me a mole, so I wondered if moles were edible. A legit article said yes but they taste bad. The AI article, chock full of ads, started out saying moles are a tasty, nutritious delicacy, but then it said never to eat them because they could be carrying diseases. Then it gave recipes for mole (the Mexican dish, no mole meat) and said a good Mexican restaurant will tell you how to prepare them and mole is only served in Mexico.

    superball , to Random stuff
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    A disabled friend has come to the realization that his beloved cat needs a different human. Iā€™ll mostly share his description verbatim, with more pics in thread. Please let me know if you or someone you know might be Miloā€™s humanā€”or boost if so inclined. šŸ™šŸ¼šŸ§” The friend will be moving to Colorado as soon as he can, and I might be making a trip to Oregon in mid-July, so any places between and including Sonoma County, California, and those locations could be doable.

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