Ilovechai , to adhd group
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btaroli , to ActuallyAutistic group
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Today. Was. Just. Too. Much.

Endless work meetings. Slack. Interruptions. HOA Committee Texts. School meetings. School district meetings. Music lesson.

At some point at about 3pm I just had enough. And when this happens I tend to leave chats. Cancel or ignore messages or meetings.

I have to for my sanity. I have learned that if I push on I truly burn out and am not useful for anyone.

Why does our society encourage this???

@actuallyautistic

Richard_Littler , to ActuallyAutistic group
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If you've ever wondered what it's like being autistic with ADHD, it's a bit like this for me. (I always assumed everybody thought like this).


@actuallyautistic

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  • maggiejk , to Random stuff
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    I should take my more often. I am loving everyone on this platform this morning.

    Does anyone with have any good tips on how to remember to eat when medicated? That’s the only reason I don’t take it every day and I really should take it every day.

    I eat before I take it so at least there’s that, and I smoke a lot of weed that will give me the munchies, but that gets expensive. And I can only do that on the days that I don’t have to go out in my car to do things.

    There must be better ideas out there.

    hosford42 , to neurodivergence group
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    This could be the connection between Ehlers-Danlos and neurodivergence. (People with EDS, like me, are 7 times as likely to be autistic and 5 times as likely to have ADHD -- also like me.)

    Cartilage-Like Structures Key to Brain Plasticity - Neuroscience News
    https://neurosciencenews.com/brain-plasticity-memory-cs6-26042/








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    StutteringLoudly , to actuallyadhd group
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    = trying to drive your car with your steering wheel lock still on

    @adhd @actuallyadhd

    tagginator Bot , to ADHD memes in It's worse when there's a test involved afterwards

    New Lemmy Post: It's worse when there's a test involved afterwards (https://lemmyverse.link/lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/20329566)
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    tagginator Bot , to ADHD memes in I'm at my most motivated just before falling asleep

    New Lemmy Post: I'm at my most motivated just before falling asleep (https://lemmyverse.link/lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/20329433)
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    tagginator Bot , to ADHD memes in I just turned into a puddle of goo. Thanks for asking.

    New Lemmy Post: I just turned into a puddle of goo. Thanks for asking. (https://lemmyverse.link/lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/20329078)
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    tagginator Bot , to ADHD memes in I can't tell if it's my ADHD or ASD, but it happens a lot...

    New Lemmy Post: I can't tell if it's my ADHD or ASD, but it happens a lot... (https://lemmyverse.link/lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/20328792)
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    shiri , to actuallyadhd group
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    KitMuse , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    I know people with estrogen have said their ADHD gets worse during perimenopause/menopause, but I'm wondering if people with testosterone 50+ also notice their Autism/ADHD symptoms getting worse. Especially more "inattentive"/stuck in their thoughts.

    I feel like we really need more research on all of this.

    @actuallyautistic @neurodiversity

    loops , to neurodivergent group
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    How can stuff be more accessible for neurodivergent people? I think this gets pushed aside sometimes in favour of more visible accessibility needs

    If you run a club or have recurring events, ‘we have a calendar for you to check’ can be a lot less accessible than ‘we run regular events, sign up for weekly reminders / reminders for upcoming events’.

    Less need to remember to go check something, on a schedule, to keep up to date, which can be hard for folks with executive dysfunction- among others, those with ADHD. Issues reasoning about time can impact this, too.

    It can seem like a style preference or a design choice, but it can be really helpful!

    Do you have things you wish people knew could make the world more accessible to neurodivergent people?

    @neurodivergent #

    Susan60 , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    Reading… so good. Sciency, but historical too which is my thing. @actuallyautistic

    edross , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    "Neurodiversity and the Myth of Normal" by Kyler Shumway, Daniel Wendler, The Great Courses on Audible. https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0CVBK3QVB?source_code=ASSOR150021921000R

    Really nice introduction to Neurodiversity. Shame it is locked into Amazon/Audible as it would be great to share

    @actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd too

    liztai , to Random stuff
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    So happy I took the time to learn . It's going to be revolutionary for my vault. It'll help me create main topic pages to keep track of my notes. I used to manually link every note to a "MOC" but I kept forgetting and found it tedious. This is going to be a "leave it and let grow" thing, and it suits my brain immensely lol.
    And how great it is that the
    anticipated our annoyance with YAML and come up with the properties feature? Genius.

    ashleyspencer , to adhd group
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    I had a Rockstar energy drink, coffee, and a small Red Bull can, and it made me so sleepy I passed out for 14 minutes and woke up feeling like I slept an hour.

    Energy drinks are supposed to make me functional, not take a nap after 240mg energy drink caffeine + whatever 4oz coffee is.

    Damn ADHD lol.

    Energy drinks do this to anyone else?


    @adhd

    ReginaT ,
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    @ashleyspencer @adhd

    Oh, yes, definitely!

    btaroli , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    My current world order, where my morning and overnight schedule has largely shifted to accommodate a crazy early start to get kiddo ready for alternate school pickup, has resulted in my not being up as late at night as I used to be.

    What I’ve realized is this seriously impacts my productivity. I’m way more productive at quiet times in mg day, and now my working time is constrained to when others are around. This sucks.

    @actuallyautistic

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    servelan , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    Popular ADHD Medications Like Adderall May Increase Young Adults’ Risk of Heart Damage @actuallyautistic

    https://scitechdaily.com/popular-adhd-medications-like-adderall-may-increase-young-adults-risk-of-heart-damage/

    lackattack , to Random stuff
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    Hello, my fellow s
    I have joined the ranks officially now
    Thanks for having me

    EVDHmn , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    vwbusguy , to Random stuff
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    My poor wife. I literally did this to her last night.

    https://youtube.com/shorts/syqCOGzEW-o

    TheConversationUS , to Parenting
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    Everybody hates being tired, but children with neurodiverse conditions – such as or – are even more susceptible to the effects of poor sleep, given their emotional reactivity and impulsivity. Here’s how to help.
    https://theconversation.com/getting-a-good-nights-rest-is-vital-for-neurodiverse-children-pediatric-sleep-experts-explain-why-222478

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